Awww, come on.
We can all be friends. Let’s grow together. Here we are on this blog site. We have wishes and wants and hurts and anger and blame. Here we come to heal and find resources to return to a place of healing.
Oops we fell. We get up again. Oops we fell again. Ever feel angry about a repeat pattern in your life? I do. I would like to always be mentally and physically healthy. I go through longer and longer periods of feeling happy these days. It only took 30 years of recovery from the past. That sneaky past that taught us responsive patterns that end up hurting us.
Here we choose the tools that help make being a friend to ourselves a priority. Making ourselves fit into relationships, outer relationships, can be familiar patterns or healthy new paths. New paths that make ourselves number one in our lives.
Does that feel wrong to you? It isn’t if you consider the “put your own oxygen mask on first” method that is taught in air travel safety to be a valuable help to others. When you are healthy for you, then you are the best friend you can be for others. Boundaries will be important to maintain that friendship as healthy; considering the heart of the soul inside yourself and their heart of the soul as well.
Be my friend to myself and you. Be your friend to yourself. Be the friend, healthy happy friend you want to be and are meant to be.